23.11.2022(Wednesday)Your life is your party

 Your life is your party.You get to choose how you invite people and experiences and things into it. 

If you’re broke as a joke, it’s not about working until you’re half dead to make ends meet and whining about your pathetic situation. It’s about showing up everyday with an excellent attitude, doing your best, leaning back, celebrating what is and steadily working with the grateful expectation and belief that The Universe is sending you a new, more lucrative opportunity. If you’re single, it’s not about boohooing the fact that you can’t find someone good or half-heartedly forcing yourself to go on a million dates. It’s about keeping your desire strong and your faith unwavering, brushing your hair and teeth, leaving the house, flirting your ass off, joyfully going about your life and being grateful that not only is the person you’re seeking also seeking you, but that The Universe is conspiring to bring you together. 

Doubt is resistance, faith is surrender. Worry is resistance, joy is surrender. Control is resistance, allowing is surrender. Ridicule is resistance, believing is surrender. Energy needs to flow or else it stagnates. Surrendering puts you in the flow. Not only does surrendering create the space to manifest your desires, but it opens you up to manifest good feeling experiences and things that are presently outside your realm of awareness (a.k.a miracles). As I mentioned before, when you’re moving into a new, awesome life that you’ve never lived in before, you can’t expect to know how to get there because it’s new territory, so you can only do that which you already know how to do and stay open to discovering the new how. 

Likewise, you need to be open to the fact that you may not know exactly what your new reality will look like because you’ve never seen it before. You’re only able to envision that which is already known to you, so the mind-bogglingly awesome new life may be out of your scope of imagination, and by stubbornly holding on to the exact vision of what you want instead of surrendering, you set yourself up to miss out entirely on the very thing you’re looking for. Sometimes your new reality will look just as you pictured it, sometimes totally different (and way better).